Dr. Lexx

LEARNED LOVERS! Y'all asked and I am delivering!!! Now available on Amazon Kindle for pre-sale dropping Cyber Monday. ... The Black Girls' Guide to Couple's Intimacy! 90+ worksheets that help you learn yourself and your lover. I cover emotional and physical intimacy in this workbook where you work together and separate to create the intimacy you want! If you are a hard copy Lover like myself subscribe at lexxsexdoc.com to become a Learned Lover and get the inside scoop on when you can purchase your very own workbook (*whispers* it'll be this month....)! I love being the #CouplesClinician and this workbook gives you some of the activities I do in my own sessions. Have fun, be vulnerable and get the intimacy you want and deserve! Link:https://www.amazon.com/Black-Girls-Couples-In//ref=sr_1_3 (Also a great distraction from current time is the section titled Hot Spots! ) #ShameFreeSexEd #Intimacybuilder #CoupleConnector #TranslatorOfLovers

#Repost @theintimacyfirm Let's have another round tonight. @dabrownsugasexdoc @lexxsexdoc @sexpositive_families... Join us for talks about Sex Positive parenting while Black. Did you have open, #SHAMEFREESEXED with your caregivers? Join us tonight to hear more about how we are navigating this landscape and supporting others in creating the sex positive family they want. For clinicians *pro tip*- I ask every parent I meet with "how are you modeling sex positivity in your home?" The question gives much insight into couple, family and generational dynamics. #couplesclinician

Happy Sex Toy Day! I love sexual devices because they help enhance pleasure. Please indulge in all the pleasure accessible to you. Hit up my great friends @askgoody , @sexstuffwithshani, @lunamatatas and @ex.x.xiteme for all your toy needs! ... And yes for solo play and surely for partnered play! Also, use sex toys with penises that are for penis pleasure!!! Happy Vulvember! #shamefreesexed #couplesclinician

The amazing Institute Intern suggested we share something to get us thru the next few hours at least. Here is our empowerment Playlist via @spotify. Link in stories as the US sits and waits know who our next baby daddy is, we can all use some uplifting encouragement and reminding that each of us has strength, resilience and power. Link: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5UU7hVkabXS0j7ltSQvETU

ISSA bundle!!! Family friendly discussions from myself and @sexpositive_families are the perfect duo for littles and those who take care of them. #Repost @miatalksaboutsex I live with a tiny human who is just learning the words for body parts. Im so excited to get @lexxsexdoc's book for the kiddo. For me and for the parents, I got @sexpositive_families's new book. When my brother said I could move in for the pandemic, he had to have known I'd make everyone talk a...bout sex :) #kidsbooks #vulva #sextalk #TheTalkstartsatbirth #SHAMEFREESEXED #sexpositivefamilies #VULVEMBER Lexxsexdoc See more

It's Vulvember, let's talk hygiene! #VULVEMBER #shamefreesexed https://www.instagram.com/tv/CHDw5LABB8D/

Whew, y'all I wrote a story for #MyVulaAndMe andI had no idea it would accepted nor that it would even make it to be read. My story is about vulva shame and internalized shame that I had to learn to undo. Yes, even me. I was rejected by a lover (read the story to find out more) and lost the value in myself and my Vulva! ... It was such a slap in the face and took me awhile to get over it all. But this book of stories, poems and essays is chock full of relatable stories that are heart warming, informative and lessons of real life. #shamefreesexed #myvulvaandme @theintimacyfirm

November is now...VULVEMBER created BY THEE @askgoody All month long I'm talking all things VULVA! We're talking anatomy, pleasure, cleanliness and how to talk to the chillren. ... Goody asks us to: Please make VULVEMBER posts too, using hashtag #VULVEMBER so your ish can be found and shared too! #askgoody #SEXEDU #SHAMEFREESEXED #couplesclinician #getyoualover #VULVEMBER

Ever been rejected sexually? How did it effect you? I share a story of mine and more with Dr. Jess Sexologist on her amazing podcast. Check out our convo here: https://www.sexwithdrjess.com//10/lexx-brown-james-podcast/ And let me know if this techniques help you reduce shame, build intimacy, and enhance pleasure.

#Repost @polydallasmill "The Ups, Downs, and Workarounds of Polyamory" with Dr. Lexx - Applying system theory conflict management to relationship systems greater than a dyad, we break down key concepts to help polyam relationships be successful, including discussion of: introjections, triangulations, differentiation, and invisible loyalties. By examining what and how these various experiences show up in consensual nonmonogamy, it is my hope that lovers will be abl...e to reduce friction across relationships, identify traits in potential partners and circumvent conflict. - Register at bit.ly/open2love - #PolyDallasMillennium #PolyDallas #PolyDallas2020 #Swinging #Swolly #Polyamory #Polyamorous #EthicalNonmonogamy #OpenToLove2020 #BlackAndPoly #BlackAndPolyamorous #POCAndPoly #POCAndPolyamorous #DesignerRelationships #PolyamorousRelationships #PolyCurious #OpenRelationship #ConsensualNonMonogamy #SexTherapy #SexTherapist #PolyamoryAwareness #Sexology #Sexologist #NavigatingRelationships #MultipleRelationships #Relationships Lexxsexdoc See more

It's Monday and this one is a bit harder (no pun intended). Answer in the stories so others can play! #shamefreesexed

I'm so excited to be on the podcast talking about ego.

Happy Friday Learned Lovers, In our learning, let's remember that man and woman identified ppl having sex- however defined in whatever position- is considered heterosexual. If a person is a man in identity and another is a woman in identity they are together in a heterosexual act, regardless of position. Also, let men feel pleasure in different ways. Damn. Brunch, lemon water and now sex on the bottom too!?!? ... I will say as a Southerner and @outkast fan In offended at the original use of lesbianics AND women look how powerful the op considers us! We can apparently (not really) change someone's orientation by how we position our bodies! In a single sexual encounter with multiple positions the very definition of sexual fluidity comes to fruition! Anywho, stretch before you reach this far please...or...just don't reach this hard. Enjoy the consensual sex you want! #shamefreesexed #icantmakethisup #letmengetpleasure #respekoutkast